Even if it is at the beginning, everything needs to have a plan of action - especially in the first stages. You have to be prepared from the start, about a minute after his proposal. We have made a list of steps that can be of great help for your wedding plan.

Dot every ‘i’ in ‘I DO’: Make sure that your boyfriend and you are on the same page in everything before calling your mother. Planning a wedding can make you and him be under a lot of stress during this period. Don’t get caught in the game and ask your fiance to sit and make a ’script’ of the ceremony and celebration. Make sure you get everything from aisle to arrival at your new home before doing anything else. If you find yourself doing all the work later on, at least you know where he stands. Remember it’s his wedding too. Respect his wishes at least once or twice!

Talk Money: Unfortunately we are not all princesses and we don’t all have rich daddies. Whip out your calculator and come up with a solid number. Be careful and be realistic. Avoid loans, credits, stretches and sales unless it’s necessary or you can afford it. Don’t EVER change this number unless you win the lottery, you or your boyfriend gets promoted, or your dad in fact produces a hefty check. Start your marriage with a happily not broke.

Make a head count: In order to be able to close your guest list, count in every possibility: every aunt, uncle and college friend in both sides; only after this start striking people out. Don’t spoil all your hard work and planning with last minute additions. Reserve a few extra seats for your family’s forgotten guests.

A place and time for everything: If you have a special date or place in mind, book them first but keep your eyes and mind open to other venues before doing so. You might be surprised by a new venue if you explore all your options. Also keep date flexible. You’ll be married forever after all.

Congratulations on getting married! These four steps will make this period of your time a blast!

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If you are having a September wedding, it could be easy to think the options for your fall wedding invitations are limited. However, there are far more variations to choose from, than a simple brown paper and leaf image.

Naturally, fall is a time of the year when nature displays to her greatest. With bright oranges, fiery reds, and burnished browns, it is a symphony of color. These amazing hues can really be used well on your invitations. It is even more than this however, with delicate pinks and greens, yellows and blues to accentuate the more earthy tones.

When designing your invitations, take some time to carefully consider what, you want to say to your guests, and how you will say it. There are numerous fonts, inks and paper colors that you can use to really complete a stunning look. Some favorites that can be adapted to suit your needs are blues on browns, oranges, reds and yellows in a flaming frieze, or bright yellows with green accents.

There are many paper types you can incorporate too. Many can be produced using leaf pulp, or even whole dried leaves. These can really add a depth of color and meaning to your invitations.

When considering the type of paper to use, it is also important to set the tone of the celebration. If it is to be formal, something with heavy linen paper and beautiful calligraphy will be perfect. If an afternoon reception however, or something a little more casual, lighter papers and more flowing writing will be perfect.

It is also a good idea to try and match all your thank you cards, place settings, menus, programs and any other literature you are going to use to your fall wedding invitations. Not only will this be another job completed, but will show a real sense of style and elegance.

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Do you know what a butterfly wedding is? It’s a different type of wedding in which live butterflies are freed. Butterflies are used because there is a Native American myth that says your wish will be granted if you whisper it to a butterfly and let it go. It will take that wish to the Great Spirit, who will then grant your wish. Butterflies also represent renewal and beauty, and releasing beautiful butterflies will definitely make your wedding one to remember! No wonder butterfly weddings are getting more popular!

The preferred season for a butterfly wedding is in the spring. Butterfly weddings are also usually held in outside in gardens, which is great if you prefer that. If not, you might not want to make your wedding a butterfly wedding, or at least go outside to release them to keep with tradition and the legend. You want the butterflies to return to the outdoors, after all.

There are many web sites to get you started. You can find great butterfly wedding accessories like bridal tiaras, hair pins, and earrings all with a butterfly motif at bridalpeople.com. These great butterfly accessories will definitely get you noticed!

You can also find many beautiful butterfly decorations at balloons-galore.net. They have different butterfly candle holders, butterfly balloons, and butterfly ribbons for you to use in unlimited ways!

Of course, you also need sites that you can order butterflies from to release at the end of the wedding. The Monarch butterfly is one of the most commonly used butterflies at butterfly weddings, and one site you can order them from monarchbutterflywedding.com. Throwing rice is bad for birds who eat them, but releasing butterflies instead hurts no one. That’s certainly a nice bonus! Don’t hesitate: hold a butterfly wedding!

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Short wedding dresses are fast becoming more popular in weddings these days. When you are choosing your bridal wear, you may find it a more attractive option to go for a short wedding dress. They are typically more comfortable tow wear, especially in the summer. Another advantage is that, since they are shorter, they cost considerably less to have tailored.

Going for both the traditional long gown and a short wedding dress may be a good compromise. While you can do all the formalities and the photo shoots wearing the long gown, you could wear a shorter gown for the rest of the function. This is becoming another popular option, especially if you like a traditional wedding but also want something a little different.

You will find that short wedding dresses are typically more popular in second weddings, informal weddings or beach weddings. It is entirely your choice what you want, and it is your special day, so it is important not to let anyone get in your way and try to talk you out of your choices. There is no reason at all why a short wedding dress shouldn’t look as beautiful s a traditional one.

While traditional, long and trailing gowns are still the most common option, more and more brides are looking into the many other options that are becoming available. Many brides still prefer the traditional wedding, but if you are not so interested in tradition, then you should certainly not have to feel restricted by it. It is a matter of your own personal choice entirely.

Your groom may find that a short wedding dress is sexier, perhaps somewhat more enticing. With more options on the market every year, there is certainly plenty to choose from. One of the more popular designs that you may want to consider is one with a plunging back and a reasonably high neckline.

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The wedding reception is a time for celebration and fun for everyone involved, especially the bride and groom. There is no need to feel restricted by tradition or anything else. This is your day and everything you do is your choice. Having a beach wedding reception can be a very nice alternative to traditional receptions.

Without having to worry a great deal about tradition and etiquette, the whole point of the beach wedding reception is to have something informal and family-friendly. This is a time to have fun and celebrate and to feel as unrestricted as possible. There are plenty of ideas that you can arrange for the beach wedding. Remember, this is your dream day and everything that you decide to do is entirely your choice.

Perhaps you would prefer to have your wedding reception during sunrise or sunset. This can be especially memorable, unique and romantic. If you were on a tighter budget, then you can have just as much fun but save a lot of money, by having your wedding reception during the day rather than in the evening when, generally, more food is going to be required.

You could have tents and a barbecue and a number of other functions planned. Alternatively, you might prefer something a little more formal and traditional. If you are going to out for a pre-planned or a buffet, then you would definitely need to have some professional caterers and perhaps some seating plans.

How long you spend at the wedding reception is absolutely up to you. There is no need to feel restricted by the norms and the traditions. Beach wedding receptions are typically less formal and provide a very pleasant alternative to anything else. Definitely something you want to be considering, especially if your wedding is being held in the summer.

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