Wedding Plan - The First Steps To Take
Even if it is at the beginning, everything needs to have a plan of action - especially in the first stages. You have to be prepared from the start, about a minute after his proposal. We have made a list of steps that can be of great help for your wedding plan.
Dot every ‘i’ in ‘I DO’: Make sure that your boyfriend and you are on the same page in everything before calling your mother. Planning a wedding can make you and him be under a lot of stress during this period. Don’t get caught in the game and ask your fiance to sit and make a ’script’ of the ceremony and celebration. Make sure you get everything from aisle to arrival at your new home before doing anything else. If you find yourself doing all the work later on, at least you know where he stands. Remember it’s his wedding too. Respect his wishes at least once or twice!
Talk Money: Unfortunately we are not all princesses and we don’t all have rich daddies. Whip out your calculator and come up with a solid number. Be careful and be realistic. Avoid loans, credits, stretches and sales unless it’s necessary or you can afford it. Don’t EVER change this number unless you win the lottery, you or your boyfriend gets promoted, or your dad in fact produces a hefty check. Start your marriage with a happily not broke.
Make a head count: In order to be able to close your guest list, count in every possibility: every aunt, uncle and college friend in both sides; only after this start striking people out. Don’t spoil all your hard work and planning with last minute additions. Reserve a few extra seats for your family’s forgotten guests.
A place and time for everything: If you have a special date or place in mind, book them first but keep your eyes and mind open to other venues before doing so. You might be surprised by a new venue if you explore all your options. Also keep date flexible. You’ll be married forever after all.
Congratulations on getting married! These four steps will make this period of your time a blast!
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